All those Men out there… are you complaining your partner is no more affectionate towards you? Is busy with her own life and work? Does not care a damn for you? Then just read further and connect the below mentioned situations with that of your relationship… you yourself might find the answer for her being ‘detached’ with you;

We talk about love, dependency, not able to live without each other, affection, being possessive about each other and the list go on and on, when we describe a couple in a relationship. At the same time, we also see n number of couple just being in the relationship for the sake of being… there is no more love, belongingness and togetherness in their relationship. They are together, but they are away from each other, they live together but busy with their own lives… and to all these we tag the couple in a relationship being ‘Independent’. I would rather say, this is being ‘Detached’ with each other. Now, how to work on to keep up your relationship if you are facing the similar situations mentioned above is up to you… but we will try to find out, what actually causes ‘Detachment’ in any relationship;

Thanks to the working patterns we are adapting. It could be your Partner re locating to Client’s place due to his work and career demands and he royally leaving you emotionally alone, even though he might take care of you financially. In most of the cases, n number of Women would get detached even with their committed partner, no matter how they love their partner, because they cannot digest their partner who earlier promised to just stay with them no matter what, is opting to re locate to any other place just because he wants to make his career. Now, me tagging the career as ‘just’ might not be acceptable to many men who are browsing this article… but Men, if you accept even Women have a career, then just sit back and recollect the situation when your partner got that extra ordinary opportunity to showcase and live her passion and that would give her more than needed boost to her career. But she just ignored it only because she was not willing to re locate to other place, leaving you alone. If she is happy choosing you over her career then why not you? If you really want to stay with your partner, then just be patient and try out for the opportunities in the same place… think over.

The other major reason for you or your partner being detached with each other could be you no more giving your partner that needed love, attention and lending ear… we are so damn busy with our lives and work that we do not even care someone is seeking attention from us. And your partner asks for the same, instead of noticing their anguish, we just say, they are nagging, complaining and are disturbing our work because they have no other work to do in particular or have a lot more free time. Just recollect that moment when you needed her the most and she, who was busy with her own work, left everything behind and was always available to patiently listen whatever you say, help you out in setting things right, and what not… if she could do all these for you, then why can’t you, when she needs you the most?

Though ‘money’ is not at all a point for two individuals to be in a relationship, how we deal with ‘money’ is important for our relationship to survive… if she does not say ‘no’ for all your madness to gadgets, tabs, laptops, home theater or Cars, Watches, perfumes, then why are you monitoring or in fact controlling her interests in buying a dress or two in a month, probably a kajal pencil, Compaq and a lip stick, if you know that all these hardly make any difference in the amount of your savings and most important, if she is a working woman, giving her share of savings from her salary and then fulfilling her wishes? Dude, stop being a Jerk and take a break… the more you are dependent and controlling her in each move, the more chances of she getting fed up with this relationship of yours…

If I go on mention, there is n number of situations like this… Yes, it could be the other side as well, where your Partner fails to understand you. But, before blaming your Partner being heart less, question yourself for being ruthless…