Who does not want to get recognized for their pleasing personality??? But, it is a big time task to correct and transform your personality into ‘pleasing personality’ and inculcate the traits. learn what are the 12 hurdles that make us stay away from obtaining a pleasing personality, I order to correct your personality;

1. Breaking in and running away with the conversation when others are speaking

2. Sarcasm expressed by insinuations and wise cracks.

3. Vanity expressed by either words or actions is sure to make one unpopular.

4. Indifference in listening while others are speaking is sure to be noticed, and resented by others. It is far more profitable to be a good listener than it is to be a good talker, because one is always out to learn something while listening to others, but never learns anything from hearing himself talk.

5. The attempt to flatter where flattery is obviously not deserved will bring quick resentment from others.

6. The habit of finding fault with the world at large, and people in general is never a popular habit.

7. Openly and directly challenging those with whom one might not agree where there is no obvious reason for doing so, expect the desire to be on the opposite side.

8. Volunteering unsolicited advice to others who have not requested it can make one an intolerable bore.

9. Speaking of one's physical ailments, worries, and personal problems may be tolerated by others, but this habit will never make one welcome or pleasing.

10. Endeavouring to convey an impression of superiority through the use of words and topics unfamiliar to others is a sure fire destroyer of popularity.

11. Envy of those who are successful is a trait which destroys a pleasing personality.

12. Sloppiness in body posture and in clothing never attracts, but always repels others.

If you are free from these 12 common habits which make one unpopular, then you most likely have a pleasing personality.   If you are not liked by other people you may be sure that there is a reason which you can detect and correct. As long as you can detect which habits are holding you back, there is no reason why you can’t take massive action to eliminate the bad habits. It is vital that you train your mind to always come across as a positive, vibrant and enthusiastic person. This will enable you to gain a massive advantage in both your personal life and your career.