And the ‘It’ in this scenario is facing the ‘Humiliation’. In yesterday’s discussion we had about fighting against 4 Evils of your life and Humiliation being one of them. But, today, when I was just thinking about various situations I have faced in the recent past, I found the necessity to raise the voice against ‘Humiliation’ and I am already on my way to support me and just hit back on the people and the situations that made me face that ‘Humiliation’ which has cut down that self-confidence on me at one point of time.
Well, when the problem is known we can work on treating the same. But, the challenge is how do we find out the difference between Humiliation and just letting out the fact. Let’s find out the same with certain examples through the following;
When your boss asks you to work again on the output delivered, despite of clearly knowing that, the output you have given in the best at that place and would suffix the purpose and when you ask why you should re work on the same, your boss has his own reasons that are filthy and nothing more, then this is for sure ‘Humiliation’ on you. Please don’t accept and work, whatever boss says is right as even you are paid to put your own mind and not a slave to just agree to the higher official. If you are correct at your own point, then please adopt the nature of ‘Do or Die’ and fight for your existence. Even if you have to leave that job and find a new one, please have confidence in you and take up the situation as it comes. There is no situation that tells an efficient person not being successful in his career.
Despite of managing the entire work and yet managing Office as well, despite of becoming one of the major source of family support, your partner or in – laws or even parents are going on taunting you, then there is no necessity to take all that nonsense. Just don’t give all those unimportant things a lot more importance. You don’t expect all these people to know your importance, respect your silence, and change their attitude towards you. It is you who have to protect your existence and let the World know how special you are. So, don’t even think twice on being harsh on those people who behave the same with you without a proper reason.
React to the situations. If you don’t then how would you stop that ‘humiliation’? When there would be an end to all those exploitation of people with you? Only if you are tough enough to handle the situation and react to all that is against you, the World would think twice even before touching you.
Rather than living in a guiltyof killing yourself and compromising with your entire life, it is better to die after fighting against all the evil that is diminishing your life.
Get started for a new you, no matter what!
SunayanaVinay Kumar
