My friend Bhavya… and intelligent, independent and self-sufficient Woman.  She was bold enough to let her decision become a reality, and made her parents agree for her, staying away from her home town in a hostel, work in an MNC.

Bhavya is 26 now and unlike many others, she has left the responsibility of choosing suitable partner for her on her parents. And now, Bhavya has to meet a guy, chose by her parents. Like any other girl, Bhavya is in a dilemma now. It is all about how to know if that guy is suitable for her or not, if she could match to his thoughts, life style, way of handling issues, and his overall personality. It is next to impossible to choose a life partner within in an month or some time in a day, but, seeing the successful marriages around us, we need to believe, be it love or arranged, marriage is all about compatibility, respecting each other as they are and most important the intense desire of  making their marriage work. Keeping this in mind, Bhavya chose her partner, based on the following as well, and they are;

Just observe how balance is your partner’s life, if they can combine working, leisure and learning effectively then he or she will make a good life partner. Someone who has a balance life will live a better life and longer. He or she is whom you want to spend the rest of your life with.

Although there are more factors in determining whether a person can be a good life partner but you can use the above factors as a hint when committing to a more serious relationship.

Choose a partner who is affectionate towards you and your family. Affectionate person is someone you feel nice and loved when you are with him or her. This will ensure that your relationship will last a very long period.

Someone who has a positive or optimistic outlook towards life makes a better partner as compared to one who is negative or pessimistic. Emotions are contagious and optimism is what you look or want if your life.

The behavior of a person speaks a lot when it comes to choosing a life partner. Choosing a partner who is polite, patience, caring and understanding will have a good impact towards your romantic relationship.

A partner who can communicate well is someone who can tell you all about his or her feeling openly. At the same time he or she is able to listen and understand your feeling effectively. This type of person will make a good life partner as you can openly express anything without any fear.

Regardless how you love your partner, your instinct plays a very important role in determining whether your partner is suitable or not. If you feel that your partner is not reliable or not trustable in the first few dating, you can forget seeing him or her. On the other hand, if you feel comfortable with someone right from the start, there is a bright chance that he or she will be a good partner.

Keeping all these and your basic list of idealistic partner, go ahead to choose a perfect start for the most important phase in life!