Day in or day out, I connect to the saying ‘one thing that always changes in our life is, ‘change’’. And yes, this is absolutely true. Right from our life style, to our favorite hero, our favorite dish, color, personality, Serial, daily routine, friends, books, songs, everything in our life changes from time to time. 

And this is applicable to even our thought process. I still remember being a ‘stubborn’ girl in my teens. Without considering the possibilities of getting or not getting it, I used to be behind my parent’s peace, to get me what I want. But, as time passed by, when I have started looking this World in a more matured, meaningful and purposeful phase, I understood the importance of each that thing, that I used to neglect once and understood to learn living with what you have and get what you want in a proper way.

But, still, there is one such thing that is rigid in me, for that matter in almost every Woman. That is an inherent nagging behavior of us. Are yaar, life tohaisi hi hai… we want everything to be perfect. Our home, our family members and their habits, our time and day ka plan, our food, daily routine and even a thought that pops up into your mind… Hum Woman kotoh, everything has to be picture perfect. And if anything goes wrong, even a bit here – there, then our so called inherent ‘nagging’ nature starts. We end up nagging with our partner to make things more organized, kids to plan their day more affectively, in – laws to understand us in a better way and parents to stop being emotional for everything that happens in our life. Sometimes, we even carry this ‘nagging’ at our work place and our subordinate or colleague becomes the ‘Shikaar of our nagging’. 

Now, can’t we change this thought of us? Can’t we be peaceful and let people around us to breathe atleast? Can’t we let the people around us, live their life being with us? Why this ‘nagging’ behavior of us that is questioning our relations itself? 

It is just our behavior, that we have tagged, accepted and started living to be the ‘inherent’ nature of us? Or there is something ‘more’? a thought that is forcing us to look and expect ‘more’ from the people and situations around us?

When we expect ‘more’ from others then why are we forgetting that this ‘expecting more’ is applicable to them on us… what in return are we giving? The same old ‘nagging’ nature?
Instead, why can’t we discuss what are we expecting from others at one time and close the issue? They work on what we have said, and then it’s awesome. If they don’t, then the risk is at their cost. 

Chalo, let’s take a pledge this moment. ‘No matter what, let’s work on changing the notion of ‘Nagging being one of the must haves of Woman’ to diminish completely!’

SunayanaVinay Kumar