Relationship is like sand held in your hand, held lightly and openly, the sand rests where it is. The minute one tries to close the hand and squeeze strongly to hold on, the sand simply trickles through the fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is exactly like that.

Most relationships which turn unsuccessful and result in break ups, divorces and separations are due to the reasons that, with way of time communication between partners becomes less, misunderstandings grow and the understanding of small issues is often not conveyed in a proper manner.

Divorces and breakups leave a very troublesome effect on particular person's health; mental disordersmay occur. Old memories of past relations start haunting and result in low self-esteem, loss ofself-confidence, tensions and other associated issues. It is very difficult to overcome and manage such a situation. One becomes wary of the situation and is frightened to get into another relationship.

So what does one do if one is faced with such a hardship? The key to success in this despairingsituation is to come out of this mind set and take a new look at life as a whole and venture for a new relationship with energizedenthusiasm and dedication.