
No matter how arrogant or calm or sweet or responsible or irresponsible your Guy is... You still love him... then with the rest all you do for him, follow this 10 mantras to withhold your Guy with you, no matter what;
1- Listen to him. More than any other complain men give when asked to name something their girl would do more of, is listen to him. Whether he's a big talker or a quiet guy, men need to have their women listen to them. And by listening, I mean hearing what they have to say and acknowledging as such. And of course, it also means empathizing, limiting judgment and allowing them to finish.
2 - Touch him. So many seem to think that all men want physically is sex, this is far from the case. Men want and need touching just as much if not more than women do. Touch his hands, arms and shoulders. Just to be close. Touch his face and look into his eyes. This will bring him closer to you.
3 - Let him have his way more than occasionally. Men like to feel they have control over their lives so sometimes the littlest things they request might be something big to them. Don't make him feel like he has to ask if he wants to do things, especially in his own home. Allow him as much freedom to make decisions as you expect from him.
4 - Make sure he has what he needs. A lot of times men have trouble coming to their women for the things they need. This causes them to either figure out how to get what they need themselves or go without. It would be so much better for him if you would simply ask him what he needs, then he could tell you, and you could do it if you were so inclined. This tip should not be taken lightly because a lot of men wind up with someone else if they're not getting what they need from their women.
5 - Be there when he's feeling low. Sometimes it's hard to be there for someone when they are feeling low, especially if they can't articulate what exactly is wrong, or if they get cranky when down. Don't let this stop you. If your man is feeling down and you want him to know you love him all the time, not just when he's feeling good, try to comfort him and give him some nurturing.
6 - Never criticize or use sarcasm. Nobody likes to be criticized or made to feel like they are screwing up, even when they are. Your man knows when he's screwed up, you criticizing him for it will only make things worse. So, don't belittle or use sarcasm when you're angry or upset, simply stop talking if you can't think of anything good to say.
7 - Trust him. Not everyone is easy to trust, but it truly is the cornerstone of any relationship. If you want your man to know you love him, than trust him to do what is right for you and for himself. If he screws up, it is your option to do what you think is best. But give him the benefit of the doubt first.
8 - Always talk to him with respect. If you love your man, why would you talk to him with anything but respect? Not doing so is a subtle way of telling him you don't really love him, because people who love each other have no need to disrespect one another.
9 - Do things for him. People who love one another do things for one another. Whether it's as a favor or because you know they need it, or because it is simply something that needs to be done. If you love your man, do those little things that show him.
10 - Support him. Everyone in life has to make a lot of decisions all of the time. Sometimes things don't work out, and sometimes they do. Don't be the kind of girl that is only supportive when he makes the right decisions or he'll not come to you at all when he's made decisions about things that might affect you both.