Almost every day we talk and know about how to maintain a healthy relation with our partner and how to transform our relation into the best. Today, let us add some more aspects that build a harmony in relation;
May be with the institution of ‘marriage’ or being in a long time relation with your partner and that turning into a committed relation, any relationship will only survive if your partner’s thoughts, ideas, likes and dislikes are adapted by you and vice versa. Does this mean you should change according to the likes and will of your partner? Definitely not… this means you should accept and respect the person however he is, irrespective of your liking it or not. If any habit of your partner so annoys you, best you can do is either ignore it and think about the good qualities of your partner or explain about that habit of your partner that actually bothers you to him/her clearly, without hurting… if understanding and adjustment are considered main aspects in the chain that bonds a relationship, then that has to be through both of you. Right?
Many consider marriage or a committed relationship as a additional head ace… but, it is a fact that just like light without the sun, you are not complete with your partner. The only art is how to choose a right partner and even if chosen a partner who would not match 100% to your thoughts and personality, how to make that relationship work. Because, it is you who have chosen him/her… now, if you are not happy in a relationship that is definitely not the other person’s mistake alone. So, if you really think you can ignore on something and this will make your relationship work, then why hesitate in implementing the same.
One of the major aspects that bind a relationship is maintaining secrecy. Whatever may be the issue, just let it be among you and your partner and never ever discuss with other, not even with parents. This is not a legal or any other issue where a 3rd person will be involved to solve the same. It is a matter of heart and between you both, so you both need to work in dealing with it.
