A common complaint in the young couples within a few years of marriage is the lack of the libido after the strenuous hours at office. A healthy sexual life is a prerequisite for the good health. But what do you think you could adopt to get back to the steamy action with your partner.
We for one suggest role-play. A self explanatory term that means you have to fit into the shoes of another imaginary character to tweak your libido.
Explore your partner's fantasies and the best way to do them is ask them directly; you do not want to mess this part up. Hesitate not, go any distance to provide the maximum thrill to your partners. Add just a pinch of creativity and audacity to your regular moves and you have just hit the G-spot. Wild is always welcome but play safe.
Most men have expressed that they are turned on by women dressed as a hot nurse, a luscious teacher a playmate with bunny ears just to name a few. Tweak your wardrobe for such role-plays. Get a pair of sexy lingerie that go with the dream role play.
Try them out before the showdown. You cannot take time to get comfortable at the Grand Finale.
Additional props be it soft hand cuffs for a BDSM, stockings, whips or anything to name could add more reality to the game. If you are a schoolteacher, make sure you have a ruler, pen and book. Remove unnecessary stuff in the room to keep it better.
Home is a routine place. The bedroom can get quite monotonous very soon. Venture to different places, hotels and resorts by the beaches have never failed to set the moods. If you are looking for everyday action, get some satin sheets for the bed, and some raunchy portraits for the walls.
Decorate the room in keeping with the theme you have chosen. The atmosphere should be comfortable enough for your partner to relax and have some fun.
Surprise your partner with things they might not expect from you. Get extra bold. Lose all inhibitions, for he or she is half of yourself.
Feeling comfortable is ok but not trying anything new to stay comfortable is not a wise move. Striptease, lap dance, or new moves are a good start. Now you have no excuses for not having sex. Is your bed well made? Get working!
(AW- Anil)