Working and earning is something that is purely your call. Neither, I am expecting you to kill all your desires and adjust for the sake of saving money. I just want you to know, what you actually want. It is very essential for one to know what they want to achieve, clarity in what they are wanting to get, right and clear vision about what are their likes and sensing what are they doing.
I am definitely not opposing you from buying anything you want and living the life the way you are used to. I am urging you to know your mind first, before taking any step. Since you just started off with your life, all this is acceptable now. What if a new member enters into your family tomorrow? What if seeing you or me, even the kid would start behaving in a similar way? I am sure, there would definitely be a point when you will regret for your behavior that has in turn made your child to be irresponsible about the future.'