'love' an emotion that binds two hearts... it is not that we have not known the sweetness and power of love until we have met that someone special in our life... right from our mother to our father to siblings, relatives, friends, we have been born and bought up between lots and lots of love... but the emotion of love that is being highlighted over here is the love that arises in the hearts of two opposite personalities, right from their gender to their way of thinking, personality traits, life style, caste, creed, religion and everything else...
Forget about meeting your partner of dreams and falling in love at a very first sight, forget about falling in love with your partner because of their attractive personality, life style and the way they project themselves...
The actual meaning of love is understanding, completely accepting the flaws and negatives of your partner just like you have accepted their positives, at times even if the person with whom you have fallen in love might not accept your love or might be in love with some other, already... irrespective of this, you not expecting anything not even love in return, loving that person all through your life... here gaining the person whom you love is not important, 'love' refers to the unchanged emotion and feelings on a person no matter that person is with you in your life or not...
Then why such a pure emotion is being miss understood today? with the change in the society and even accepting western culture why are we not able to accept the emotion of love between two your hearts? Why love is still considered to be a life breaker and a hurdle to an individual development? May be because the population of those who use the emotion of love for their own convenient way and satisfy their physical needs has become high? May be in order to not able to control our biological needs, we satisfy them with our partner in the name of love or may be with the determination to get the person with whom we are in love, we are ready to not only leave the rest of world but also to let go all our rest of the relations, not considering their importance, not even trying to make our loved ones understand about our love...
Now, it is up to you to decide, are you really in 'love'???